The genuinely nice guys (male pacifists) in fiction - who want to be with the one and only girl they really love - why are they viewed as wimps and wusses (or even gay)? And girls who speak their minds and enjoy sex - why are they bitches and whores who need to be dominated and punished for demanding respect? I am sick of double standards. It's time to understand how it's poisoning our culture and our view of gender.