Governments and administrations are supposed to help people, not enrich themselves at the expense of others. That is far from civil, just, and humane.
Systems that are evil, fascistic, authoritative, corrupt, cruel, cutthroat, calculating, divisive, exclusionary, exploitative, abusive, violent and aggressive should not exist. Any system run on and by avarice, hubris, egotism, narcissism, obstinance, bullying, constant deceit and betrayal, pettiness, and bitterness should not exist. They are not normal. They are not natural, nor inevitable.
Violence, aggression, and ruthlessness - "masculinity" and "manliness" - are not strengths - they are, in fact, great signs of overcompensation, insecurity, cowardice, childishness, whininess, pigheadedness, laziness, an unwillingness to learn and accept responsibility and accountability, and an "easy way out". We are not animals, nor slaves to our "instincts" or "genes" or whatever excuses you can come up with - we humans are better than that.
Kindness, compassion, thoughtfulness, feelings, altruism, truth, trust, charity, philanthropy, humility, open-mindedness, growth, and adaptability - "femininity" and "femaleness" and "wokeness" - are not weaknesses. It takes massive amounts of strength, perseverance, and courage to stick to your beliefs, your causes, your brain, your heart, and your humanity in the face of insurmountable adversity and hopelessness. Calmness, clearheadedness, love and hope in the face of all that is true strength.
Do not trust anyone who takes more than they give.
Treat the "other" and "minorities" with kindness and respect, as you would everyone else. "Tolerance" and "acceptance" are the bare minimum of how you treat other human beings. There is no "other", nor are there "minorities" - no one is minor or lesser. They are normal. They are just people, like you. Everyone is different, so difference is not bad. No one's existence is an inconvenience to you. Get over yourself, and educate yourself, and get some empathy. And therapy.
Treat everyone as you would like to be treated.
I ask you to ask yourselves: What have you done today that is helpful, free, and empowering, to yourself and others? What of your actions and words are loving, caring, and kind?