'Good Different' - one of the most darn beautiful and relatable things ever.
It is more than a book; it is an experience.
I rarely read novels in verse, and poetry, but 'Good Different' got me. It hooked me from the start. It can be read in a day, no matter what else you're doing.
It is a beautiful piece of modern literature for all ages, about kindness, understanding, empathy, boundaries, likes, dislikes, and realising that, yeah, everybody is different - every human being is different, it is impossible for us all to be a single homogenous hivemind built to serve within the confined structures of set rules made to keep us under control and "normal" - and that's okay. It's a great, marvellous thing.
There is no such thing as "normal". Any failure to conform to "normal" standards is the failure of the system and the people in charge, and not anyone else.
Adapting means adjusting to necessary changes, and seeking help, care, support and understanding along the way, in order to "fit in" and "be normal". It means feeling accepted as you are, and therefore free and happy. It is not about conforming to oppressive, restrictive, harmful and unhealthy social rules, cues, and systems.
Administering change in the system, and accommodating an individual's needs, is also a message; a reminder that:
No one is alone. No one is a freak. There are more people like you than you think. There is someone out there who feels the same way you do, who likes what you like, and shares your experiences. You will know if you give them a chance, and let them in.
Everyone is weird, and that's amazing. It's fantastic. It's human.
To deny this, and to hide, censor and block this universal truth, is a violence. It is an evil, unnatural wrong.
'Good Different' is about neurodivergence and autism. It is about childhood, and growing up and discovering you are on the spectrum, and that there is nothing "wrong" with you after all. It is about a thirteen-year-old girl, Selah (I love her name, and I will always think of her as "Selah Moon" in my mind), and her self-discovery, coming-of-age journey, as she navigates school, friendships, and her family, which also has a history of autism (there is generational trauma in here, too).
Selah Godfrey tries to be "normal" and put on a neurotypical mask, but of course it is not working. In public, she is suffocating and hurting, constantly playing by the rules of "normal" she made up in her head, trying to keep herself under control, quiet, small and unassuming. Hiding in bathrooms and toilet cubicles, and at home and in her bedroom, won't work as temporary places for release and recharge forever.
Poor young Selah is exhausted. Being social and keeping up with other people is draining her, and she is on the edge - the edge of releasing, no--exploding at a worst time and place, and having a breakdown or meltdown. She can't hold in her true thoughts, feelings, quirks, and sensory issues for much longer.
But maybe writing will help. When she can't express herself in speech, maybe writing down her thoughts and feelings as poems will help. Help her feel free, and listened to.
As herself.
I adore that 'Good Different' is generally a feel-good, uplifting book, and that Selah does have lovely, encouraging and supportive teachers, like her brilliant English teacher. Mrs. V. Her family is learning and growing for the better, too, thanks to her. No more masking! Any selfish, narrowminded, not-so understanding characters, such as certain other teachers, and "friends", and her school principal, they are not given much of the time of day - not so obsessed over in sensitive Selah's life. Outright bullies are deservedly one-dimensional and not given any description and page time beyond a blip in a day and poem of Selah Godfrey.
Selah's special interest in and hyperfixation on the 'How to Train Your Dragon' series - and how she feels like a dragon in a world built for humans - is especially adorable. I love and relate to anyone with geeky interests. Her going to a fantasy con with her friend, Noelle, is a magical highlight - and an enlightening experience, for both Selah and the reader - in so many ways.
Selah feels she is a dragon, or a dragon tamer and rider. She feels there is a dragon inside of her; she wants to be a dragon, and let all the boiling, building fire out. I personally feel I am, and want to be, a magical girl (from my "Selah Moon" comment, this is probably obvious even to people who don't know me). I think I've always felt that way, since my very lonely and struggling childhood.
This novel in verse really touched and spoke to be on a deep level.
Selah, go be a dragon, and I'll be a magical girl and witch.
Let us make magic and change together.
I'll reveal nothing further.
Just read 'Good Different'. It is good for the soul. It is one of the best books about autism ever written. Forget 'The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time', read this instead. And 'A Kind of Spark', which in my opinion isn't perfect, but is still worth the read (it is especially relevant for its subject matter of witch trials and why they happened).
'Good Different' and 'A Kind of Spark' encourage empathy for difference (it is one of the things that is inherent and can't be taught; only hatred and bigotry are taught), and a strong sense of social justice, in people.
Autistic children, autistic adults, let it be known once and for all:
There is nothing wrong with you. You are not weird in a bad way. You are not a mistake. You are not broken. You are not damaged. You are not dangerous. You are not onerous; a burden or a nuisance.
You are you. You are an individual. You should stand out. You are the most beautiful creation the world should be grateful to know. You are important and needed in the world.
You are loved.
Screw normal. It's a manmade myth.
We are all different, and no one is alone. Let us embrace that.
Let us express it creatively and imaginatively, like the dragon girl Selah.
Like dragons, let's soar.
What a positive, uplifting, empowering, hopeful message.
Go check out 'Good Different' right now, if you haven't already. Trust me, you need it. Everybody needs it. You will not be the same afterwards.
And that will only be a good thing.
Adios, depression!
Final Score: 5/5
P.S. In terms of LBGTQ+ rep, there is an artist at a booth at the fantasy con that Selah and Noelle go to, who is referred to by they/them pronouns. That's about it, and regardless of whether it's intentional rep, I'm counting it as such anyway.
It is more than a book; it is an experience.
I rarely read novels in verse, and poetry, but 'Good Different' got me. It hooked me from the start. It can be read in a day, no matter what else you're doing.
It is a beautiful piece of modern literature for all ages, about kindness, understanding, empathy, boundaries, likes, dislikes, and realising that, yeah, everybody is different - every human being is different, it is impossible for us all to be a single homogenous hivemind built to serve within the confined structures of set rules made to keep us under control and "normal" - and that's okay. It's a great, marvellous thing.
There is no such thing as "normal". Any failure to conform to "normal" standards is the failure of the system and the people in charge, and not anyone else.
Adapting means adjusting to necessary changes, and seeking help, care, support and understanding along the way, in order to "fit in" and "be normal". It means feeling accepted as you are, and therefore free and happy. It is not about conforming to oppressive, restrictive, harmful and unhealthy social rules, cues, and systems.
Administering change in the system, and accommodating an individual's needs, is also a message; a reminder that:
No one is alone. No one is a freak. There are more people like you than you think. There is someone out there who feels the same way you do, who likes what you like, and shares your experiences. You will know if you give them a chance, and let them in.
Everyone is weird, and that's amazing. It's fantastic. It's human.
To deny this, and to hide, censor and block this universal truth, is a violence. It is an evil, unnatural wrong.
'Good Different' is about neurodivergence and autism. It is about childhood, and growing up and discovering you are on the spectrum, and that there is nothing "wrong" with you after all. It is about a thirteen-year-old girl, Selah (I love her name, and I will always think of her as "Selah Moon" in my mind), and her self-discovery, coming-of-age journey, as she navigates school, friendships, and her family, which also has a history of autism (there is generational trauma in here, too).
Selah Godfrey tries to be "normal" and put on a neurotypical mask, but of course it is not working. In public, she is suffocating and hurting, constantly playing by the rules of "normal" she made up in her head, trying to keep herself under control, quiet, small and unassuming. Hiding in bathrooms and toilet cubicles, and at home and in her bedroom, won't work as temporary places for release and recharge forever.
Poor young Selah is exhausted. Being social and keeping up with other people is draining her, and she is on the edge - the edge of releasing, no--exploding at a worst time and place, and having a breakdown or meltdown. She can't hold in her true thoughts, feelings, quirks, and sensory issues for much longer.
But maybe writing will help. When she can't express herself in speech, maybe writing down her thoughts and feelings as poems will help. Help her feel free, and listened to.
As herself.
I adore that 'Good Different' is generally a feel-good, uplifting book, and that Selah does have lovely, encouraging and supportive teachers, like her brilliant English teacher. Mrs. V. Her family is learning and growing for the better, too, thanks to her. No more masking! Any selfish, narrowminded, not-so understanding characters, such as certain other teachers, and "friends", and her school principal, they are not given much of the time of day - not so obsessed over in sensitive Selah's life. Outright bullies are deservedly one-dimensional and not given any description and page time beyond a blip in a day and poem of Selah Godfrey.
Selah's special interest in and hyperfixation on the 'How to Train Your Dragon' series - and how she feels like a dragon in a world built for humans - is especially adorable. I love and relate to anyone with geeky interests. Her going to a fantasy con with her friend, Noelle, is a magical highlight - and an enlightening experience, for both Selah and the reader - in so many ways.
Selah feels she is a dragon, or a dragon tamer and rider. She feels there is a dragon inside of her; she wants to be a dragon, and let all the boiling, building fire out. I personally feel I am, and want to be, a magical girl (from my "Selah Moon" comment, this is probably obvious even to people who don't know me). I think I've always felt that way, since my very lonely and struggling childhood.
This novel in verse really touched and spoke to be on a deep level.
Selah, go be a dragon, and I'll be a magical girl and witch.
Let us make magic and change together.
I'll reveal nothing further.
Just read 'Good Different'. It is good for the soul. It is one of the best books about autism ever written. Forget 'The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time', read this instead. And 'A Kind of Spark', which in my opinion isn't perfect, but is still worth the read (it is especially relevant for its subject matter of witch trials and why they happened).
'Good Different' and 'A Kind of Spark' encourage empathy for difference (it is one of the things that is inherent and can't be taught; only hatred and bigotry are taught), and a strong sense of social justice, in people.
Autistic children, autistic adults, let it be known once and for all:
There is nothing wrong with you. You are not weird in a bad way. You are not a mistake. You are not broken. You are not damaged. You are not dangerous. You are not onerous; a burden or a nuisance.
You are you. You are an individual. You should stand out. You are the most beautiful creation the world should be grateful to know. You are important and needed in the world.
You are loved.
Screw normal. It's a manmade myth.
We are all different, and no one is alone. Let us embrace that.
Let us express it creatively and imaginatively, like the dragon girl Selah.
Like dragons, let's soar.
What a positive, uplifting, empowering, hopeful message.
Go check out 'Good Different' right now, if you haven't already. Trust me, you need it. Everybody needs it. You will not be the same afterwards.
And that will only be a good thing.
Adios, depression!
Final Score: 5/5
P.S. In terms of LBGTQ+ rep, there is an artist at a booth at the fantasy con that Selah and Noelle go to, who is referred to by they/them pronouns. That's about it, and regardless of whether it's intentional rep, I'm counting it as such anyway.