Dear writers. Could you please, please stop depicting "bossiness", orderliness and/or "control freakishness" in female characters as flaws? I'm tired of this. Assertiveness is a good, useful trait for everyone in life. It does not make a woman a bitch for manifesting even a little of it. And make it okay for her to get angry - that's healthy. Let's be glad of girls' voices; glad they are allowed to be human.